Challenge Yourself & Your Selling Style

If you've been in the industry for any length of time, chances are you know that from time to time, you have to use different approaches to make your money.

For many, that seems like a very daunting task, and for good reason! Switching up your hustle style isn't easy, but sometimes it's necessary.

Let's discuss some ways you can challenge yourself in those moments when your typical hustle just isn't doing it for you!

 

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Tax Season for Spicy Workers

I know the idea of paying taxes as a sex worker might seem like a ridiculous and daunting task. It may seem intimidating to keep your income and expenses straight or it may feel like a completely idiotic move to involve the IRS with your SW-earned cash... but there are some positive and (unfortunately) necessary reasons to file your taxes every year.

I'd like to give you some background on what taxes can look like as a sex worker, and how you can begin your tax journey, even if it seems scary or flat out stupid. Do you have to follow any of this advice? No, of course not. However, for those who are concerned or curious, I'm going to do my best to provide as much easily understandable information as I can on the topic of spicy taxes!

Please remember, I am NOT a tax expert, accountant, or financial advisor. I will always recommend meeting with a certified accountant to discuss your exact financial situation, your tax time plan, your deductions, quarterly payments and how to properly file with state and federal agencies at tax time.

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Imposter Syndrome in the Club

We all know imposter syndrome exists in many aspects of life from jobs to relationships.

While strippers may often exude intense levels of confidence on the floor, many can also be struggling with experiencing imposter syndrome and wondering if they even belong in the club at all.

So, why might strippers experience imposter syndrome? Are the causes/reasons similar to those people deal with in civilian jobs? How can we focus on decreasing the detrimental effects of imposter syndrome on our lives and work as strippers?

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Nightshift Negatives

Now that we know some of the excellent aspects there often are during night shifts, let's see what some of the latter characteristics might be.

From a high volume of girls to the very out of whack sleep schedule, there are plenty of reasons why night shift may be something that isn't for you all the time. 

Read on to find out some reasons why nightshift isn't always my preferred shift.

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The Joys of Nightshifts!

Nightshifts in the strip club can be amazing for a variety of reasons! For some, scheduling possibilities of late evening to early morning are a huge plus.

For others, the energy and fast paced environment bring the stimulation and excitement they need to do well, enjoy their work, and hit their goals. 

If you're new to the world or just to working nights, read on to hear about some of my favorite perks of nightshift life!

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Dayshift Downfalls

You see that photo I included there?

Sometimes that is exactly how a bad shift at the club will feel... especially when it's a slow ass dayshift.

Yes, days can be awesome for a variety of reasons, but believe me when I tell you, they can and do most certainly have their pitfalls at times.

Along with considering some of the positives I mentioned in my last blog which you can read here, I want to be fully transparent and honest with you by also discussing some of the less desirable aspects of days at the club that I have seen and experienced during my career as a stripper. 

 

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Are Dayshifts Actually Worth It?

Believe it or not, yes, there actually are clubs that offer dayshift hours!

A lot of people tend to assume that it's only a more "undesirable" type of dancer that can be found working this shift, but that is far, far from the truth!

Different shifts work for different people. So, what's a dayshift like? Can it really be worth it?

The short answer is, yes! Much like any sales job, if you can find your niche, selling style, and connect well with your customers, you can sell. Let's find out some of the positive aspects of adding a dayshift to your schedule as a stripper.

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Spinning Negatives into Positives

We've all been there, someone at work has just said something totally out of pocket to us and unfortunately, now it's in our head and stressing us out.

Why do people do this? Why do they say hurtful things that seem to get in the way of our good mood at work?

How do we reframe these unkind statements and spin them into something positive?

 

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Post-Work Routines

Working at the club can take the energy right out of you in more ways than one.

Having a calming, relaxing and safe environment to unwind in after a shift is crucial to your mental, physical and emotional wellbeing as a dancer.

 

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Pre-Work Routines

A pre-work routine is a great way to get into your stripper persona and hype yourself up before getting to the club & going on the floor.

Whether it's detailed or something you loosely follow, a routine will be a helpful tool for transforming yourself into a bag-getting baddie!

 

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Fantastic Affirmations!

It's no secret that positive thoughts are a key to success!

Implementing positive affirmations into your daily routines both in and out of the club is an excellent way to stay motivated, bring good energy to yourself and maximize your potential.

Try some of these affirmations out and see how they make you feel!

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Stripper Must Haves

We all know that stripping requires more than just shoes and an outfit...

But what are some of the "must have" items that really ensure you're prepared?

This is a list I've compiled & received input from other dancers as well on their go-to must have items!

 

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Navigating Stripper Burnout

Stripping can and will test you in a variety of ways.

It can be mentally, physically and emotionally draining to work this industry day in and day out. 

Are there ways to recognize burnout and deal with it?

What steps can you take to prioritize your well-being and make sure you're in touch with your needs and emotions?

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Pole work vs. Floorwork

Pole vs. Floor - decisions, decisions...

Is one more beneficial than the other?

Do you need both to be a great dancer?

What are some benefits and drawbacks of each?

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