Frequently Asked Questions

The Dancer's Diary is a sex worker-created blog, store, and brand by Barbie Riot. It exists to help other sex workers learn, grow, express themselves, and find a safe space for questions, discussion, and new ideas across all avenues of sex work. Barbie knows firsthand how tough it can be to navigate your stripper persona and your off-stage life in a way that’s healthy, happy, and profitable. She created The Dancer’s Diary as a place where sex workers can educate themselves on industry-related topics to better manage both their careers and their personal lives.

Barbie Riot is a stripper, content creator, and writer who’s been in the adult industry since 2020. She got her start on platforms like OnlyFans and ManyVids, but eventually found her spark—and her stage presence—inside the club. Barbie blends business smarts with a deep passion for connection, using her voice to uplift and educate fellow sex workers. Whether she’s on stage, behind the camera, or typing out her latest blog, she brings realness, hustle, and heart to everything she does. The Dancer’s Diary is her way of giving back to the community that helped her find her power.

The Dancer’s Diary dives into all the things dancers and sex workers actually want to know—no fluff, no shame. You’ll find blog posts on club hustle tips, financial advice, mental and physical health, navigating identity on and off stage, and real stories from the industry. It’s a mix of education, empowerment, and personal experience—with plenty of attitude and emotion along the way.

Yes! The Dancer's Diary is all about community and sharing real stories from the sex work industry. Whether you’re a dancer, content creator, or anyone working in the adult entertainment world, we want to hear from you! You can participate by sharing your experiences, tips, or stories through written interviews or vlog interviews. Reach out if you’re interested in being featured—let’s keep the conversation going and empower each other.

Barbie can be reached by email at: barbiethedancersdiary@gmail.com

You can get your hands on custom stripper heel charms right here in the shop! Whether you’re looking for something flashy or personal, we’ve got a variety of options including customizable charms to make your heels uniquely yours. Just head over to the Shop page, choose your charm, and place your order. It's that easy!

Absolutely! We love hearing from you. If you have a burning question, topic suggestion, or anything you’d like to see covered, feel free to drop a comment on any of the blog posts or send us a message via the Contact page. We’re always open to new ideas and feedback from the community!

The best way to stay in the loop with all the latest content is by subscribing to our YouTube channel and turning on notifications. You can also follow us on our Instagram for sneak peeks, updates, and more. That way, you never miss a blog post, video, or new resource!

Yes, there’s always something exciting in the works! We’re planning to expand with more interviews and vlogs, bringing in voices from all corners of the sex work industry. Plus, we’re exploring new ways to support the community, including exclusive content and maybe even some live Q&A sessions. Stay tuned—big things are coming!

I started my career on platforms like OnlyFans and ManyVids, where I learned the ropes of content creation and the business side of sex work. While these platforms were an amazing starting point, I eventually transitioned to in-person work as a stripper, which has given me a new perspective on the industry. I share a lot of what I’ve learned (and continue to learn) on my blog, so whether you’re just getting started or looking to level up, you’ll find tips and insights based on my own experiences.

You can reach out to us via the Contact page on the website. Whether you’re looking for more info, have a collaboration in mind, or just want to say hi, we’d love to hear from you! We’re always open to working with like-minded folks who are passionate about the community and the industry.

Yes! We’re excited to announce that the shop will be expanding soon to offer even more goodies. Along with custom heel charms, we’ll be adding merch, clothing, stickers, club necessities, and other cool 3D printed items to help you stand out and feel your best on and off the stage. Stay tuned for more updates!